04/15/2012 Happy Tax Day!!!

 

Chaney Weiner was a guest on The Dr. Stan Frager Show from 8:00-9:00 PM EST 04/15/2012. If you missed the show don’t forget to check out the podcast –  Podcast at www.970WGTK.com , then click on “quicklinks” , then podcasts, then Dr Stan Frager show.

Chaney Weiner is a sought after authority on human potential and personal development. He is the founder of the Chaney Institute of Human Potential, an organization dedicated to empowering people worldwide in all seven areas of life (Financial, physical, family, mental, spiritual, vocational, and social) by helping them discover their hidden brilliance and uniqueness based on what is most important to them.

An acknowledged transformational leader and a leading expert on success and raising human potential, Chaney has inspired millions of people around the world, sharing his breakthrough methods for personal and professional success in the seven different areas of life.

Primary Topic:   How to Breakthrough to Your Genius

1. Many times you’ll hear people say that they aren’t a genius. You disagree with this and say that everyone is a genius. Can you discuss this further?

2. One of the main things that hold people back from expressing their genius is the fear of not being smart enough or educated enough. What can someone do to overcome this and gain clarity on what their unique skills are?

3. Along the same lines as the previous question is that of how to deal with situations when people may not take you seriously because you aren’t licensed or degreed. What are your thoughts on this and how can someone effective handle this type of a situation?

4. You speak about someone being a “genius by association.’ Can you discuss this further?

5. What are some of the blind spots that someone can be aware of and then overcome when it comes to realizing your genius?

6. What role does motivation and inspiration play in regards to someone uncovering their hidden genius?

7. How does someone (especially a young child) realize their genius ability if they have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)?

8. What are your thoughts on those who are labeled as geniuses in school versus those who aren’t? How can a parent and child handle situations where they may not be looked upon as a genius in school but do excel in areas outside of school?

Please visit http://chaneyweiner.com to learn more about Chaney Weiner and how to transform your life!

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How to Realize Your Defining Moment and Have a Breakthrough in Your Life.

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Gifted Education

Quotes by Albert Einstein

Fear of Failure (taken to the limit) (Wiki link):    Atychiphobia is the abnormal, unwarranted, and persistent fear of failure.[2] As with many phobias, atychiphobia often leads to a constricted lifestyle[3], and is particularly devastating for its effects on a person’s willingness to attempt certain activities.

A person afflicted with atychiphobia considers the possibility of failure so intense that they choose not to take the risk. Oftentimes this person will subconsciously undermine their own efforts so that they no longer have to continue to try.[4] Because effort is proportionate to the achievement of personal goals and fulfillment, this unwillingness to try that arises from the perceived inequality between the possibilities of success and failure holds the atychiphobic back from a life of meaning and the realization of potential.[5]

By definition, the anxiety of any particular phobia is understood to be disproportionate to reality, and the victim is typically aware that the fear is irrational, making the problem a

largely subconscious one. For this reason there are no simple treatments for atychiphobia, however there are several options available.

 

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Dr. Jesse Owen, Kelley Quirk and Johanna Strokoff were guests on the Dr. Stan Frager Show from 9:00-10:00 PM EST 04/15/2012. The topic was newly weds and the discussion was about those first years of marriage, the honeymoon period and when that honeymoon period is over. If you missed it look for the podcast!

Website:  Relationship and Psychotherapy (RAP) Lab

Mission statement (RAP LAB):  “Our mission is twofold: to contribute to the enhancement and understanding of couples’ relationship functioning, and to develop a deeper understanding of the common and specific factors related to therapeutic effectiveness.”

Dr. Jesse Owen is a licensed psychologist and a faculty member in the Counseling Psychology Dept. His clinical practice and research focuses on couple therapy, romantic relationships, and psychotherapy. He is currently the PI on a study of couple therapy which is accepting couples for free couple therapy.

Kelley Quirk is a doctoral student in the Counseling Psychology at the University of Louisville. Kelley earned her Masters degree in counseling at Central Michigan University and has since focused her efforts on doing research and therapy with couples.

Johanna Strokoff is a doctoral student in the Counseling Psychology Program at University of Louisville, where she is currently gaining training as a couples therapist.  She received her Masters at Towson University in Baltimore, Maryland where she completed her internship working with families and children.

Primary Topic: Newly weds

Is the first year if marriage really the hardest?

2. Learning to live day in and day out with someone who was raised with different habits, morals, and rules can be very difficult, how can couples cope?

3. If in the first few months of marriage if a new problem arises, like finding out your new husband has a terrible temper, is the marriage doomed to fail?

4. Do you think getting premarital counseling can help avoid these problems in marriage?

5. Prior to marriage, couples often assume that the other will take on certain roles (breadwinner, house cleaner,etc) but later find out things aren’t that way. How can a couple achieve a good balance of expectations and realistic standards?

6. In-laws try to stay connected with their newly married child and this often can disrupt marriage. What’s a good way to still be close to your parents but not start fights with your new spouse?

7. After getting married what is a good balance of being someones life partner but not doing everything together?
8. Do you believe living with your partner before marriage reduces the chances of these first year problems?

9. Often couples stop having sex as much as they did before marriage. What problems can this cause and is it important to be intimate?

10. How much fighting is too much fighting? When should you seek help or call it quits?

Related Links:

About.com’s advice for Newly Weds

Topics of possible interest from About.com:

Great Advice From Married People

As newlyweds, we can learn from those who have been married longer than us. We can observe what they are doing what right and wrong to help us improve our own relationship. We can look to them for answers about how to build an enduring marriage. That’s why the advice of married people is invaluable.

Why You Need A Prenuptial Agreement

Find out why you – even if you’re not among the world’s wealthiest – need a prenuptial agreement to protect your marriage now and in the future.

20 Mistakes Newlyweds Make

Newlyweds are a lot like freshmen. They are still learning the ropes of marriage. They are human and make mistakes. But making yourself aware of common mistakes might help you avoid making them yourself. Here is a list of 20 mistakes newlyweds make — and some tips on how to overcome them:

How To Discuss Money With Your Spouse

Money is among the top reasons couples argue. Different salaries, spending habits, and attitudes about money make it a controversial topic. Newlyweds know too well, however, that people need money to survive, especially if you are paying off wedding debt and college loans, purchasing new furniture, and starting a family. Money, in fact, is an unavoidable topic for newlyweds. But it does not have to be the krypton to your super marriage. As long as you and your spouse broach the subject honestly and calmly, you can discuss your finances without arguing. Here are some tips on how to discuss money with your spouse.

Name Change – Should Women Change Their Name When They Get Married?
Weigh in about whether women should change their names when they get married — and find out what others think about the tradition of changing your name.

 

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Tips from the IRS and a reminder to file your taxes by April 17th:

 

1040 Central

Couple with a laptop computer e-file logoJoin the nearly 80% of taxpayers – 112 million – who use IRS e-file

Remember, your filing season deadline this year is April 17. 

IRS goes mobile with IRS2Go, a smartphone application that lets you interact with the IRS using your mobile device. IRS2Go helps you get the information you need: whenever you need it, wherever you are.

Use Online Tools – below are just a few of the online services available:

What’s new about reporting capital gains and losses this year?

Educating Your Employees About Taxes
These products may help employees with their tax responsibilities.

Targeted Tax Credits Certain credits are for certain people. Are you one of them?

Commonly Requested Forms and Publications
Here is your one-stop source for all the IRS forms and publications you will need.

Facing Difficult Times Financially?
Find the answers to What if? questions like: What if I can’t pay? What if I lost my job? and other events like debt forgiveness or tapping a retirement fund.

Filing and Payments
The IRS is making it easier than ever for you to conduct business with us electronically.

Products and Services in Spanish and Other Languages.

Frequently Asked Questions and Answers.

Are you or your spouse a member of the U.S. Armed Forces?
The tax laws provide some special benefits for active members of the U.S. Armed Forces.

Points to Keep in Mind When Choosing a Tax Preparer
You are responsible for what’s on your tax return, no matter who prepared it.

Receive Your Tax Refund as U.S. Savings Bonds.
Trying to grow your savings? Use all or part of your refund to buy Series I U.S. Savings Bonds. You can even split your refund between two or more accounts/uses.

Phishing and e-mail scams
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Taxpayer Advocate Service
Experiencing economic harm? You may be eligible for TAS assistance.

Need more Assistance? The IRS wants to help; lots of information is available for Individuals and Businesses.

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